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  • Mar. 12th, 2008 at 11:03 AM
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Since I have some new friends I thought I'd hype the weight loss community that I maintain.  Last summer garden_blog and I were trying to lose some weight and did this weight loss challenge where we'd set a goal for ourselves and then work toward it, using the community for support, to share ideas, blah blah blah.  It's been laying there kind of dead for awhile but I need to lose some weight, get encouragement and stuff so I'd like to bring it back to life. 

Here it is... loss_challenge

Monday ickies

  • Oct. 16th, 2006 at 4:09 PM
Meyer Junkie
I am sick. It sucks. I thought it was just allergies, but alas, no. It's a full blown cold.

Argh.

Uphill Weight Loss Battle

  • Aug. 23rd, 2006 at 9:36 AM
Jersey Girl
I've got to get back on track. I had a really good time at Hershey Park and ate so badly. I drank soda all day and even had ice cream. I couldn't stop myself and I really didn't want to.

But it's Wednesday and while I'd resolved to be better at home this week, I haven't been drinking my water. I skipped lunch yesterday. I had a horrible, veggie free dinner last night. It's time to make up my mind and just do it.

I am proud of myself for having started a little bit of an exercise routine. Rosie and I have been taking walks around town in the evenings. I feel like I get a little added bonus by pushing 60 pounds of squirming child in a stroller during our strolls.

I'm planning a crazy fat-filled dinner on Saturday. Our friends from PA are coming out to go to the beach. I am all excited and going crazy cleaning and planning stuff. I am such a dork. I'm a ball of frenetic energy just waiting for it to be Friday already so that they can get here.

The Plague: Day 3

  • Aug. 2nd, 2006 at 9:50 AM
Meyer Junkie
I still feel like crap.  My nose is all chapped and sore and I have to keep blowing it. 

I was on AIM last night chatting with one of my friends and I realized what a crappy year, in terms of illness, 2006 has been for me so far.  I've had the flu at least three times.  Placenta abrupta sent me to the hospital six weeks early, on my birthday, in a blizzard to deliver Joey prematurely, via emergency c-section.  I was back in the hospital in March in massive pain to have my gall bladder removed and now I'm sick again. 

Whoever is in charge of this stuff, thanks, but I've had enough.  I'd like to get back to my regularly scheduled life now. 

My house is a disaster zone because I just don't feel like cleaning.  I'm tired and it's waay too damn hot outside.

Okay, enough whining...

Oh and one other thing...

  • Jul. 31st, 2006 at 8:04 PM
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I've been making myself this awesome steel-cut Irish oatmeal for breakfast.  My diet says to eat oatmeal, so I have been.  I add two tablespoons of wheat germ (which isn't as bad as I thought it would be), raisins, cut up dried apricots, chopped pecans, 2 Equals, a little bit of milk, cinnamon and a tablespoon of real maple syrup.  This is some seriously yummy stuff but it takes a half hour to cook the oats.  Under normal circumstances, it's totally worth it and I don't mind the wait.  This morning I was behind schedule and feeling crummy so I took out two packets of instant Weight Control oaltmeal from Quaker.  

This stuff sucked SO BAD.  Blech! Instead of the firm, nutty-tasting oatmeal I've grown to love, I had this cardboard flavored mush. 

Yuck.   Tomorrow, back to the Irish oats.

Jul. 31st, 2006

  • 7:53 PM
Meyer Junkie
I feel like crap.  Summer colds are the absolute worse-- thank goodness Steve is working normal hours this week and was home at 5:15.  He came home, I went in the bedroom and passed out for an hour.  I hate being sick.  Rachel is sick.  Andy is sick.  Even poor little Joey seems to be getting sick. 

So we got pizza for dinner.  We just ate.  It's time to put Joey in his crib and then it will be Andy's turn.  

I think I'm going to make myself a cup of tea-- even though the thought of drinking something hot is really unappealing. 

Hot enough for ya?

  • Jul. 31st, 2006 at 11:28 AM
Meyer Junkie
The Weather Channel says that the heat indices for this week here at the Jersey Shore are going to get as high as 115 degrees.  I will be staying home, inside the house.  The air conditioning in my car has mysteriously stopped working. 

My weekend was pretty lame.  Steve worked a lot.  He worked late on Friday and all day Saturday.  Yesterday he got a couple of the little house projects done.   I did a lot of laundry.  Whoo hooo.  (It's an exciting life, let me tell ya!) 

I weighed in at eDiets this morning and I'm down a total of 16.5 pounds.  LA here I come!  I am sooo proud of myself.  The workout DVD that their fitness guru recommended for me and my specific issues and needs should arrive sometime this week-- today or tomorrow. 

And that's about all that's going on here.  I'm pretty tired.  We all seem to have annoying summer colds. 

Diet Week 4

  • Jul. 27th, 2006 at 12:09 PM
Meyer Junkie
Six week goal: 18 pounds
Long term goal: 158 pounds

down 10,  8 to go for short-term goal,  90 for long-term goal

Grrr.  gained a pound this week, but I was really awful.  I wasn't drinking my water, eating garbage.  I deserved it.  Steve took some pictures of me last night and it was motivation enough to have two bottles of water today already and to have a healthier breakfast. 

I make a mean bowl of oatmeal. 

So, I finally bought the exercise DVD recommended to me by the fitness trainer guy over at eDiets.  I can't wait for it to come.  Maybe I'll do the tae bo tape when Andy goes down for his nap.  I'd like to go for a walk outside, but it's hot and I'd have to take the bus (the Graco duo glider) and the two boys with me and I just don't feel like doing all that.

Diet: Week 3

  • Jul. 20th, 2006 at 9:14 AM
grammar avatar
Six week goal: 18 pounds
Long term goal: 158 pounds

down 11,  7 to go for short-term goal,  89 for long-term goal

Dental issues continued

  • Jul. 18th, 2006 at 2:42 PM
Meyer Junkie
The  stupid temp bridge just popped off.  I called the dentist's office FUMING.  I know that it was jerry-rigged because the lab screwed it up and I didn't say anything about it but now it's popped off-- it's sitting on my dresser.  Several hundred dollars worth of dentistry.   I want it corrected.  I want the right bridge and I'm not going to pay for their screw up. 

Took a big sip of water and it hurts.  Great.  I can't get there tonight to have it fixed because they're closing as Steve gets home so I have to wait until 10 am tomorrow. 

The ongoing saga of my broken tooth

  • Jul. 18th, 2006 at 9:09 AM
Sassy ME

Last night I finally got my temporary bridge installed.  The process was long and tedious and left me with an aching jaw and another annoying problem.  When the lab made the bridge, it was supposed to be 2 caps with a full tooth in the middle to replace the one that broke.  Instead, they made it with three caps bust since the dentist had already sculpted two of my teeth to receive the bridge sje had to install it.

So, now I literally have a bridge over the open space where the broken tooth was removed.  On top of that, it feels too wide.  I have a suspicion that they gave me a bridge intended for someone else. 

Groan...

  • Jul. 13th, 2006 at 4:39 PM
Meyer Junkie
Feeling a little better but sort of removed from myself-- the same sort of feeling I'd get from drinking too much.  That's sooo not the case right now.  I've had a bottle of water and about 8 saltines all day.  I'm feeling ravenously hungry so I guess that's a good sign.  Earlier today the thought of pushing food past my lips was repugnant.  

Steve just left for work-- he'll be gone until about 1:30 in the morning.  It sucks.  Plus he took my car since I am not planning to go anywhere.  Maybe I can get my friend, Rosie, to come over for a little while just to keep me company.  

He didn't take anything out of the freezer for dinner so I have no idea what I'm going to do.  I could make fish sticks for the kids.  Andy loves them.  There's no way I'm eating that though.  I was thinking about take-out but I have no idea how my stomach is going to behave.  Perhaps I should just have some Lipton's chicken noodle soup and play it safe.  

I need to open the windows and air out the house but it's too humid. 

The boys are sleeping.  Andy will probably wake up in a little while.  I don't know exactly when he went to sleep but it was after 2.  Joey is asleep on a blanket in the living room.  He looks so angelic and peaceful and sweet, I could just mush him. 

Blech!

  • Jul. 13th, 2006 at 12:35 PM
Meyer Junkie
I am sick-- whether it's a stomach virus or food poisoning, I just can't tell.  

It started last night around 8.  I was sitting in theliving room and my stomach felt kind of weird.  I thought I was just hungry and tired.  I was getting Andy ready for bed when Rachel came in and said she threw up on the carpet in her bedroom.   I told her what to do to start cleaning it up and I put Andy in bed.  On my way to help her out, I stopped in the bathroom for the first of 10 pilgrimages to pray to the porcelain goddess myself.  

I have been up all night, throwing up regularly, on the hour.  

Steve is home until at least 3.  I'm hoping I start to feel better soon.

ATTN MOMS OF BOYS

  • Jul. 5th, 2006 at 9:54 PM
Superhero
This article re. calming lavender and tea tree oil was in my local paper... thought I'd pass this info on.


Health care products can spur breast development in boys
Posted by the Asbury Park Press on 07/4/06

BY AMANDA GARDNER
HEALTHDAY

Personal care products containing tea tree oils and lavender appear to cause abnormal breast development in prepubescent boys, a new study found.

The ingredients, which have an estrogenlike effect, are found in various shampoos, lotions, soaps and other products.

"There's definitely an association between exposure to lavender oil and tea tree oil and gynecomastia (abnormally large breasts in men)," said Derek Henley, lead author of the research and a postdoctoral fellow at the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences, in Research Triangle Park, N.C.

Henley stopped short of declaring a cause-and-effect relationship, but did emphasize that the information could help physicians identify cases of gynecomastia that have no readily apparent cause.

"It may help steer physicians in a direction they wouldn't have thought of," Henley said. "The message is to raise awareness, so the public is aware of the association, and physicians are aware of it."

Dr. Edward Reiter, chairman of pediatrics at Bay State Children's Hospital in Springfield, Mass., added, "The issue is a Sherlock Holmes kind of thing. This was a pretty good pick-up. It's old-fashioned science sleuthing. You have a problem, and you figure out what's going on."

Henley presented the findings at the just-completed annual meeting of the Endocrine Society, in Boston. Reiter was moderator of a press conference announcing the findings.

Gynecomastia is associated with an imbalance of estrogens (so-called female hormones) and androgens (so-called male hormones). Young boys don't produce much testosterone, so there is nothing in the body to counteract extra estrogen, such as might come from mistakenly taking a mother's birth control pill or, more concerning, an estrogen-secreting tumor.

The condition is unusual. "I may see a patient every year or every other year with this, a prepubertal boy who has some breast development," Reiter said. "Usually, it's a tiny amount, and you never find out what it is, then it goes away."

But when Dr. Clifford Bloch, co-author of the study and a pediatric endocrinologist in Denver, saw five boys with the problem, he decided to investigate. All of the boys, he soon realized, had used over-the-counter health care products containing lavender and/or tea tree oil on their hair or skin.

When tested on human breast cancer cells, the oils appeared to mimic the activity of estrogen and also suppressed male hormone responsiveness. After discontinuing use of the lavender and tea tree oils, all of the boys saw the problem resolved.

And even though the condition is relatively uncommon, experts think this information will help clear other "mystery" cases.

"My guess is that this sort of thing occurs in a scattered way in little boys all the time," Reiter said. "It may well be that someone wouldn't even think of this. Now, doctors can ask if the patient is using any products."

ON THE WEB: For more information on gynecomastia from the American Academy of Family Physicians, visit familydoctor.org/080.xml.

Used Monk & Butterball

  • Jun. 30th, 2006 at 10:58 AM
Meyer Junkie

I know it's healthier for me.  I know it is.  But damn, why does turkey bacon have to be so funky and weird. 

It looks like bologna when you put it in a pan.  It smells weird.  

I like my regular old pork belly bacon.  This stuff is a feeble substitute.   I think I prefer to just do without. 

blech!

New Community

  • Jun. 27th, 2006 at 8:14 PM
Meyer Junkie
Okay, on [info]nancydrew811's suggestion, I started the Weight Loss Challenge Community!  It's a moderated community so membership needs to be approved by me or Nancy, but I'm hoping lots of you guys will join and we'll cheer each other on while we lose some extra pounds!

Diet- Day 2

  • Jun. 27th, 2006 at 10:06 AM
Sassy ME
So far so good!  Of course, it's only been, like, what, 24 hours?  I'm sitting here with my 1 cup portion of Irish oatmeal, sweetened only with equal and a little vanilla extract but it's still too hot to eat.  I remember from my culinary school days that oats are great for your heart.  I think mine is needing a little help.  I notice that when I'm feeding Joey, depending on how I'm holding the bottle, my hand falls asleep. 

So I've got Steve on the bandwagon too.  We're both in big need of help.  We need to exercise more-- as if chasing two rugrats around isn't enough of a workout.  The weather hasn't really been conducive to it lately. 

I have a lot of inspriational role models though.  [info]mom2cole has lost a ton of weight on Weight Watchers, an old friend who recently moved from NYC to LA lost a bunch of weight and looks really fit.  My mom had to get her weight in control because of her diabetes.  So now it's my turn and I'm planning to attack it in stereotypical Juli style, which is to say, total focus and concentration until I win, er, succeed. 

Yum, this oatmeal is good. 

The food I'm supposed to be preparing isn't too wacky or awful sounding.  There's a lot of basic stuff.  Lots of veggies, which is typical.  I gotta get myself past this hatred of squash.   The only way I'll currently eat zucchini is baked into bread or breaded and fried.  If anyone has any suggestions, please send 'em along. 

Joey's Baptism and aftermath

  • Jun. 26th, 2006 at 1:33 PM
Meyer Junkie
Yesterday was Joey's Baptism.  There were 6 other families having babies baptized in church yesterday and as a result, the ceremony was kind of weird.  The priest had all of the parents, godparents and babies kind of circle round the altar, we said our little piece about rejecting Satan and so forth, then each family went over to the Baptismal fount for the water pouring.  After that it was back around the altar for candle lighting, garment giving, annointing and so on.  It resulted in a very assembly-line feeling and impersonal ceremony.  I intend to write a letter to the rectory about it.  If it's a matter of having too many families to deal with at once then say no more than 3 babies per Sunday or schedule them in 15 minute intervals or something.  

We were the only family having a Baptism when we did Andy's and it was lovely.  I feel like Joey was gypped. 

We'd planned a small-ish BBQ type celebration afterward.  Sixteen people RSVPed that they were coming.  Five did not show up. So I had a ton of food and cake left over, which I sent with Steve to work today.  

Anyway, having uploaded all of the pictures taken yesterday, this morning I joined eDiets.  I started right away and just ate my prescribed lunch.  I have to remember to eat over the course of the day.  I have to drink more water and I have to get up off my ass and move away from the computer.  

(It's just diificult when it's my only link to the outside world most days!)



Weekend Escapades

  • Jun. 12th, 2006 at 11:14 AM
pink gerbera
Friday I finally had oral surgery to remove that stupid broken tooth.  It took so long because there was other stuff that had to happen first, like filling my mouth with nasty purple goo to take an impression of my teeth so they could build my bridge thing.  Whatever, anyway... I had the broken tooth pulled and also the upper wisdom tooth on the same side.  The surgeon came into the room and introduced himself.  This isn't the office I normally go to, it's like a satellite office, so he asked me my last name to write on the folder.  I told him and he asked me if I got teased in school a lot because of it.  I told him it's my married name so I was never teased but that we like to play with hostesses and maitre Ds at restaurants by asking for a table by saying "Two for Ruffing."  If you're a hockey fan, you get it.  

Anyway... he asked if I had any children and I told him.  He said, "Guess how many kids I have."  Figuring that unless he had a lot, he wouldn't ask that way so I guessed four.  He chuckled and said he has 8 kids ranging in age from 19 to 9 months.  Then he said he has had six wives.  I told him he's either very brave or very stupid.  He said he hates to be alone and is still looking for the right woman.  I asked if he was currently married and he said yes.  Am I wrong to think that this was a weird exchange to have with your dentist? 

So, the paperwork was completed, I signed the release and cranked it up my little MP3 player.  Dentist guy said that I wouldn't feel pain, only some pressure.  I was listening to the extended introduction to One Night in Bangkok.  By the time the intro was over and the song actually started, he was done.  It took less than 2 minutes and I didn't feel any pain.  He wrote me a prescription for antibiotics and extra strength vicodin and I was on my way.  

Saturday was the last day of Operation Bridal Shower prep and I busted butt all day to get it all together.  Steve and I went to Costco in the morning.  He cleaned up the yard in the afternoon and I cleaned up the house.  My mom came down and watched the kids.  Bit Saturday was also our anniversary.  Our dating anniversary.  We've been together for seven years.  It doesn't seem significant to other people but it marked for both of us, the longest relationships either of us has ever been in.  Whooo hoo.  We'd planned to have a seafood feast at home but later in the afternoon I decided that I wanted to go out.  We ended up at Houlihan's (because we had the kids with us) and both had prime rib for dinner. 

Yesterday was the shower.  Steve and I were worried about setting up in the yard because earlier in the day it was pretty windy.  Steve had to figure out how to tie down the canopies so they wouldn't catch wind and fly away.  I ended up being the one to run around and pick up all of the random last details: the sub, the cake, the flowers and the balloons.  I also had to pick up some tables from my friend, Donna.  I got home at noon and still needed to shower and get dressed before guests started arriving at 1.  Arrgggh!  It all turned out beautiful and she received lots of very nice gifts so all of the work was totally worth it.  Steve and I crashed really hard at around 10 pm.  He had to get up at 3 am to be in to work at 4. 

Dentist tonight!

  • May. 22nd, 2006 at 1:40 PM
Meyer Junkie
Whoo hoo!  Parts of my body will be removed from my head this evening!  

Spoke to my old boss on the phone.   She told me that the company was only responsible for refunding the COBRA payments that I made, that they cashed, without providing coverage and that's all they would do.  

It's really quite disappointing.  I had this idea in my head that the company, and the CEO in particular, had real integrity-- that he took care of his employees.  Now, granted, I'm no longer an employee, but the real screw up here is with both the current and prior Benefits Coordinator.  The old one never updated the policy when the company grew to comply with the law regarding COBRA.  The current one cashed my checks and never paid attention to the list of covered persons that comes with the insurance invoice every month.   The buck got passed around the office and I really feel like the only person with any compassion there is my old boss, the woman who hired me.  She went to the CEO and urged him to take care of this mess.  

So after speaking with her, I called the insurance company directly and apparently I'm in their system again.  So tonight this will be taken care of and I can have this stupid tooth fixed, and then start working on fixing up the rest of my dental issues. 

Argh!

Now I can resume being incredibly scared of actually going to this appointment and having the work done. 

Dental Nightmare continues

  • May. 22nd, 2006 at 12:21 PM
Meyer Junkie
It's Monday afternoon and I still have this jaggedly broken, pointy, painful cracked tooth in my mouth.  I am worried that if any food got down in there, I may have a nasty infection growing.   

I had an appointment with the dentist at 6 pm on Friday.  Called my office all day and spoke with the Benefits Coordinator.  She said I needed to speak directly with the CEO.  He was "in meetings" all day.  I left voice mails-- sweetly- asking him to get back to me before 5:30 because that was when I'd need to leave for the appointment.   

I really believed that what was going to happen when I called the office on Friday was that someone would ask the name and number of my dentist, then call him and provide a credit card number for treatment.   

Nope.  

The COO (not a typo!  Not the CEO, the COO) called me at 5:35 and said it was the first she'd heard of my problem and she'd get back to me on Monday.   

I'm finding it more and more difficult to be nice when I call.  Threats and ultimatums aren't my style but  day-yum, I really don't know what to do at this point.

Dental Drama Continues

  • May. 17th, 2006 at 4:14 PM
Meyer Junkie
Benefits Coordinator (BC)just called me back.  Apparently the policy under which I got my dental insurance was written so as not to be "Cobra-eligible."  They're rewriting the policy but it is going to take 14 days to be effective.  So I can go to the dentist and either pay out of pocket and submit a claim myself or ask the dentist not to file the claim for two weeks.   Neither is really an option at all. 

So basically, I was offered Cobra coverage and elected to take it.  I paid for it and they cashed my check but I was not covered.  

Do I have any legal recourse here? 

I suggested to BC that if I could have paid out of pocket, I would have and that perhaps the company should pay for the treatment out of pocket and submit a claim to be reimbursed.   She just kind of stammered and said she didn't know what other information she could provide to me at this time.  I asked to speak to the chief admin.  She was away from her desk so now I'm awaiting another call back. 

Speaking of teeth

  • May. 17th, 2006 at 8:49 AM
Meyer Junkie
It's getting worse.  It actually hurts now and I've been taking my leftover pain meds from my gall bladder surgery. 

Stupid Juli rescheduled her dentist appointment for Friday evening, totally forgetting that Friday is Steve's birthday.  I'm hoping to get a call from the Benefits Coordinator today telling me I'm all set.  

Insurance Update

  • May. 16th, 2006 at 1:23 PM
Meyer Junkie
I'm back in the insurance company's system but it's going to take 24-48 hours to get me back up and running to process a claim so now I have to call the dentist and make another new appointment.  Grrr. 

She did tell me that if it's a dire emergency that I can pay with my credit card and get reimbrused.  If I were able to do that, I would have done that yesterday. 

I am annoyed.

Ongoing Dental Drama

  • May. 16th, 2006 at 11:42 AM
Meyer Junkie
Quarter to 12.  Still haven't heard back from the benefits coordinator.  I will call at noon.  Three hours is long enough to put in a phone call.  

I just spoke to Andy's therapist and she said she went to the dentist that my appointment is with tonight and that they screwed her over on her payments.  They said that her x-rays were covered by her insurance and it wasn't and she had to pay out of pocket.  

I wonder if perhaps I should get on the dental insurance company website and see if there's another local dentist.  I picked the one I did because they specialize in sedation dentistry.  I have so much work to be done, I kind of liked the idea that I could go to sleep and they would do all the work.  I'm such a dental coward. 

When I called and made my first appointment I was a little put off by the office manager.  I feel like I should trust my instincts.